Perfect partner (PP)

Problems

In the relationship of the perfect partner can present several problems such as lack of communication, insecurity, etc, will not only be among couples with a loving relationship, it can also be  working relationship that is affected by different reasons.

Insecurity

It is one of the factors that mostly occur because there is enough confidence or can also be by the lack of communication between two

people.

Organizational culture

The organizational culture is good when have a good relationship between coworkers but this can change for various reasons for example the competition among coworkers can create a rivalry for that reason

 the work environment can change 

for the worse.

Picture Source : 

Stephen,k. (2015) . Strategies to help you pick, then develop, the perfect partner. https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/247200

Why You’ll Never Find the ‘Perfect’ Partner?

We will never find a perfect partner for us, everybody make mistakes and have values as well anti- values because nobody is perfect, but We are so busy looking for someone who is the perfect woman or the perfect man that we do not realize when we find the right person for us that even is not 100% perfect as we seek but he or she is at least 70 or 80% good.

"Instead of wasting time searching for an exact match, look for the guy who is free of your deal breakers and has 80 percent of what you do want in a partner. The other 20 percent you can grow. Do not walk past him while you’re looking for Mr. 100 Percent, because somebody else is going to marry Mr. 80 Percent" (Phil, 2015)

Source: 

Phil, (2015). Why You’ll Never Find the ‘Perfect’ Partner. Recovered from The huffington post:

 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/09/finding-a-partner_n_7030736.html

Stereotypes

A variety of theoretical perspectives have been employed to explain the causes of what have typically been considered robust sex differences in relationship attitudes and behaviors. Some theories focus on evolutionary reasons for differences, while others focus on the ways in which socialization might contribute to sex differences (Eagly & Wood, 1999). Researchers who espouse the evolutionary perspective suggest that sex differences in relationship behaviors and attitudes result from different obstacles to reproductive success that men and women faced in their ancestral past (Eagly & Wood, 1999; Sprecher, Regan, & McKinney, 1998). 

Unconsciusly when people are searching for a couple they think about a person who have many skills, who is handsome or beautiful, who someone who has many good cualities. 

Girls are searching for someone careful and protective and boys are searching for someone cute and delicate. Everybody are searching for someone with tastes in common

For example, sex differences in infidelity might be explained by sex differences in the “minimum parental investment” required to raise a child to maturity. The costs of infidelity for men are relatively low. Men can cheat and potentially walk away from any resulting offspring or they can decide to care for multiple partners at once and thereby increase the likelihood that they will have viable offspring. The costs for women are much higher. Should the infidelity result in pregnancy, women will, at minimum, face a nine-month gestation period, the considerable risks of childbirth, and the demands of breast-feeding.

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Aries, Elizabeth (1996). Men and Women in Interaction: Reconsidering the Differences. New York: Oxford University Press.

Barron, J.D. (2001). She Wants a Ring and I Don’t Wanna Change a Thing. New York: Harper Collins.

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Buss, D. M., & Schmitt, D. P. (1993). Sexual strategies theory: An evolutionary perspective on human mating. Psychological Review, 100, 204-232.

Perfect Partner

A “perfect couple” is a happy couple that learns to enjoy each other’s differences and works together every day to create something special. Great relationships require effort and care to endure and evolve so that both partners continue to feel fulfilled. Even the happiest, healthiest relationships take hard work and commitment, but the reward of enduring love is definitely worth it!

To resume, a perfect couple is one where both tries to make effort to make the like of the other one perfect and the other one does it also. We cannot have a perfect couple because we are not perfect but we can make our couple be perfect for us. A little is effort is all that is needed.

Sourse:

Maud Purcell(2016) PsychCentral http://psychcentral.com/lib/the-10-secrets-of-happy-couples/

Multitasking and the Brain

There continues to be a significant amount of research identifying which parts of the brain are involved in specific information processing activities. When someon is studying, the memory is activated in a particular side of the brain, the same happens when someone is listening to music or watching a movie. Every function activate an specific part of the brain so multitasking people have an spry brain.

The types of processing that occur in these two regions are significantly different and impact storage and retrieval. The hippocampus will sort, process, and recall information involving declarative memory. Memories in the hippocampus are easier to recall in situations different from where they were learned, whereas those stored in the striatum are closely tied to the specific situation in which they were learned. It has been found that learning with the striatum while performing habitual or repetitive tasks leads to knowledge that cannot be generalized as well in new situations. (Poldrack as cited in Aratani, 2007). But we have to remember that our head is like a machine and multitasking people are overburdening the normal activity of brain. And much of the time people do not rest the eight hours that brain need to regulate all the ativities that it made awake.

The research of Rubinstein, J., Meyer, D., and Evans, J. (2001) is consistent with earlier studies finding that multitasking takes more time and involves more errors than focus on a single task. When learning with distractions associated with multitasking, students’ brains are trying to “wing it” by using a region, the striatum, that is not best suited for long term memory and understanding. This is consistent with the findings of Delbridge (2001) who also noted that focusing on one task or a single goal results in fewer errors and less time than trying to focus on multiple tasks and goals.

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Aratani L. (February 26, 2007). Teens Can Multitask, But What are the Costs? The Washington Post. 

Ben-Shakhar, G., Sheffer, L. (2001). The relationship between the ability to divide attention and standard measures of general cognitive abilities. Intelligence 29, pp.293-306.

Delbridge, K. A. (2000). Individual Differences In Multi-Tasking Ability: Exploring A.

Multitasking Children

Nowadays children are multitasking, they are more exposed to media than in the past because with technological advances most people have at home things like computer, television, cellphone, music, etc. The amount of time that children spent using technology is increasing with the passing of the years. “Through media-multitasking, a significant number of children have increased their absorption of media as they text while surfing the Internet, listen to music while reading, and watch television while doing homework all at the same time” (Roberts, Foehr, & Rideout, 2005). But with the advances in digital technology tools is very easy for children find a thing to do like see videos, movies, play videogames, listen music, etc.

Some studies said that multitasking has negative effects in children “When researchers began to explore the implications of television-as-electronic babysitter, they found that infant television exposure correlates highly with delayed language development” (Christakis et al., 2009). If children watch television at an early age they may accustomed to this and do not do natural things for their childhood like play with their parents which is a fundamental part for their development and communication.

Source:

Roberts, Foehr, & Rideout, 2005 Multitasking and Learning. 

http://www.socialworker.com/feature-articles/practice/media-multi-tasking-and-the-learning-developing-child/

Benefits of Multitasking

Multitask is beneficial because it helps us to do things faster, plus it saves time and helps our creativity. Multitask also helps we perform the most optimal things and finish our goals in a given time.
another important factor, is not only because it saves time, money and increase your creativity also, you will make a more efficient person because you get used to perform more activities at the same time.
multitaking is very important because when you perform several activities at the same time you end up faster and that is good because for that reason can perform other activities that perhaps could not perform due to lack of time

Saving Money

For employers, multitasking can save a lot of money. If you're able to use multitasking to do things you'd otherwise delegate to employees or others, you can save money. Rather than hiring someone to file papers for you, do this while you're on the telephone with a client. When you can use multitasking to decrease the number of employees needed or the number of hours they work, you can save money.

Saving Time

One of the most obvious and important benefits of multitasking is it enables you to save time. Rather than doing one thing after the other, you combine tasks so you can more quickly get everything done. For instance, rather than spending an hour on the treadmill and then listening to a language course on tape for another hour, do them at the same time and save an hour of your day. Multitasking allows people to free up more time for the things they enjoy, such as their families or hobbies.

Prevents Procrastination

Those who multitask will be less likely to procrastinate between tasks. Such people will be more motivated because they will see what they're getting done and achieving. When someone is multitasking, it's more difficult to find the time to procrastinate and therefore waste time.

Increasing Productivity

Multitasking increases productivity for everyone. If a company has three employees who can multitask effectively, they will accomplish a lot more than the same number of workers who do not multitask. This could decrease the time needed for projects and certain tasks. For an individual, multitasking can even increase productivity around the house. This is especially helpful when someone has a lot to accomplish, such as during holidays or special events.

Sourse: 

Samantha Cummings (2015) ehow. What Are the Benefits of Multitasking? http://www.ehow.com/info_8614420_benefits-multitasking.html

Multitasking

Delbridge (2001) defined multitasking as accomplishing multiple goals in the same general time period by “engaging in frequent switches between individual tasks”. The individual may, at any given point in time, be making progress towards meeting only one of the goals but over the longer time period makes progress towards all goals. This definition is based on the assumption that tasks are performed in succession, or in a sequence, not simultaneously. Distinguishing between simultaneous and sequential processing, Delbridge (2001) noted that when trying to do just two tasks simultaneously, performance on one task is generally detrimental to performance on a second, simultaneous task. This distinction between simultaneous and sequential processing is significant in the research of multitasking.

Source:

Delbridge, K. A. (2001). Individual Differences In Multi-Tasking Ability: Exploring A Nomological Network; Unpublished Doctoral Dissertation, University of Michigan,